<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[My Site 1]]></title><description><![CDATA[My Site 1]]></description><link>https://www.bodiesbyclarke.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2026 11:32:55 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.bodiesbyclarke242.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[If You’re Asking “What Do You Bring to the Table?” You’ve Already Lost]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s a question that sounds logical on the surface: “ What do you bring to the table?” It’s become common in conversations about relationships, dating, and value. But according to the framework presented by Ryan Stone. That question is fundamentally flawed. Not because value doesn’t matter. But because the question itself reveals a deeper issue. ❌ The Hidden Weakness Behind the Question When you ask someone what they bring to the table, you’re trying to evaluate them before you’ve fully...]]></description><link>https://www.bodiesbyclarke.com/post/if-you-re-asking-what-do-you-bring-to-the-table-you-ve-already-lost</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cc2274f7044e6cf7a354fe</guid><pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 21:02:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/241ef8_683391d4895d4f13af3b2af50071f6e6~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>bodiesbyclarke242</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Don’t Just Be a Good Man Be Good at Being a Man.]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s a difference between being a good man  and being good at being a man . And in today’s world, that difference changes everything. A “good man” is often described as kind, faithful, helpful, emotionally available. Those are virtues. They matter. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: You can be a good man…and still be overlooked. You can be loyal…and still be disrespected. You can be loving…and still not be desired. Why? Because being good is about character. Being good at being a man is...]]></description><link>https://www.bodiesbyclarke.com/post/don-t-just-be-a-good-man-be-good-at-being-a-man</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a4e88efe2730c041326029</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 01:53:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/241ef8_bda7b4bbadfc4ad0bce690fa298c18ff~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_600,h_600,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>bodiesbyclarke242</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is the Dating Pool Really Sh*t… or Are the People You’re Attracted to Not Living Up to Your Expectations?]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s a phrase I hear constantly: “The dating pool is trash.” There are no good men.” There are no good women.” But here’s the uncomfortable question we rarely ask: Is the dating pool really broken… or are we repeatedly choosing people who don’t meet our standards? The Pool Isn’t the Problem Your Filter Might Be Let’s break this down honestly. If every person you date: Lacks consistency Avoids accountability Doesn’t communicate well Struggles with commitment At some point, it’s no longer...]]></description><link>https://www.bodiesbyclarke.com/post/is-the-dating-pool-really-sh-t-or-are-the-people-you-re-attracted-to-not-living-up-to-your-expectat</link><guid isPermaLink="false">699a3c9233aebccb4867b8f2</guid><pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2026 00:08:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/241ef8_09e39c3bd47d41fe830a560791ee1440~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>bodiesbyclarke242</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>